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Pain Of Abortion
Emerges In Pop Music

By BRITNEY GLASER


WASHINGTON, D.C. - Musicians are singing about the negative impacts of abortion.

        Music artists spanning the past 30 years in more than 20 genres of music have been singing a common song that may quietly be influencing society.

        From rap to country, heavy metal to folk, musicians confront a prevalent and personal issue: the emotional and physical turmoil of abortion.

        The songs are not just from women who have experienced abortion; a significant number are from men. The rap song Retrospect for Life by the group Common, says, "Turnin' this woman's womb into a tomb/I'm sorry for takin' your first breath, first step, first cry. From now on I'm gonna use self-control instead of birth control, 'cause $315 ain't worth your soul."

        The song Speculum, by the heavy metal band Adema, is written by a band member whose girlfriend had an abortion. He sings to the aborted baby, "Know that I think of you, it's killing me. The guilt has lasted years, I still cry."

        Ben Folds, from the rock band Ben Folds Five, describes the day that his girlfriend had an abortion. Folds' song, Brick, says, "Can't you see, it's not me you're dying for. Now she's feeling more alone, than she ever has before. She's alone, and I'm alone, now I know it."

        Women's songs come to the heart of the pain that they or friends have undergone through this procedure. Country/folk singer Julie Miller expresses the lingering voice of the unborn in her song Dangerous Place.

        She sings, "Little ones to Him belong, you are weak and we were wrong. Tell ourselves you don't exist but your silent screams persist."

        Punk folk singer Ani DeFranco describes the emotional and physical feelings of the abortion procedure in Lost Woman Song: "Through the pinch, pull, wincing/ my smile unconvincing/on that sterile battlefield that sees/only casualties/never heroes/my heart hit absolute zero. Your voice still sounds in me."

        Christian heavy metal band Holy Soldier songs from the perspective of the aborted baby:

        "From a pail with open eyes, I see the man that I despise. He looks at me and turns his back, and my life fades.

"'Mommy,  I'm afraid'."

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        From rock musician Graham Parker: "Did they tear it out, with talons of steel, and give you a shot, so that you wouldn't feel? And wash it away as if it wasn't real?"

        From Barren Cross, a Christian heavy metal band: "The operation is over. I'm now in pieces in a garbage bag. Guilt will now take over, 'cause where is the relief you thought you had?"

        What does this all mean? Why are these musicians singing songs about abortion?

        David Reardon, author of Aborted Women: Silent No More, concluded in his fact sheet After Effects: "Studies within the first few weeks after the abortion have found that between 40% and 60% of women questioned report negative reactions. Within eight weeks after their abortions, 55% expressed guilt, 44% complained of nervous disorders, 36% had experienced sleep disturbances, 31 % had regrets about their decision, and 11% had been prescribed psychotropic medicine by their family doctor."

        DCTalk, a Christian alternative band, perfectly summed up what should be society's response to abortion in Children Can Live (Without It):

        "A miracle of God, now looked on as a choice. It's time for all His children to unify a voice. With influence in numbers and power in prayer, we must defend the children, and fight for what is fair."

        "If music truly reflects the soul of a society, these songs reveal the intensity and violence of abortion," said Wendy Wright, senior policy director for Concerned Women for America.

        Still, despite this evidence, both scientific and cultural, Planned Parenthood's web site says, "Research studies indicate that emotional responses to legally induced abortions are largely positive."   Note to Planned Parenthood: Turn on your radio.

This article is reprinted in the Wanderer August 28, 2003 with permission
of Concerned Women for America. See its web site at cwfa.org.

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      Rachel weeping for her children,
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Title : Lost Woman Song
Artist : Ani Difranco
Album : Like I Said

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-for lucille clifton

I opened a bank account
when I was nine years old
I closed it when I was eighteen
I gave them every penny that I'd saved
and they gave my blood
and my urine
a number
now I'm sitting in this waiting room
playing with the toys
and I am here to exercise
my freedom of choice
I passed their handheld signs
went through their picket lines
they gathered when they saw me coming
they shouted when they saw me cross
I said why don't you go home
just leave me alone

I'm just another woman lost
you are like fish in the water
who don't know that they are wet
as far as I can tell
the world isn't perfect yet
his bored eyes were obscene
on his denim thighs a magazine
I wish he'd never come here with me
in fact I wish he'd never come near me
I wish his shoulder
wasn't touching mine

I am growing older
waiting in this line
some of lifes best lessons
are learned at the worst times
under the fierce flourescent
she offered her hand for me to hold
she offered stability and calm
and I was crushing her palm
through the pinch pull wincing
my smile unconvincing
on that sterile battlefield that sees
only casualties
never heros
my heart hit absolute zero
Lucille, your voice still sounds in me
mine was a relatively easy tragedy
now the profile of our country
looks a little less hard nosed
but that picket line persisted
and that clinic's since been closed

they keep pounding their fists on reality
hoping it will break
but I don't think there's a one of us
leads a life free of mistakes